I would rather meet a person who is not amiable and who does not feel any burden to act amiable towards me, than to have the misfortune of knowing people who feel like they need to be gracious and compassionate so they will appear to be good people, whilst possessing none of those qualities within themselves! It's the latter that causes the pain in life. What would YOU do to win the girl of your dreams Keith spends his college. See a recent post on Tumblr from mooncolonizer about wonderful quotes. “It's not unfortunate that people aren't genuine what's unfortunate is that insincere people try to act sincere and in doing so, mislead and deceive the other.